For the
yeshiva day
school
graduate,
it's one of
those quaint
things that
we grew up
with, but
never knew
where to
file it and
why it was.
I refer to
Keturah, a
detail in
the epilogue
of our
parsha, an
apparent
footnote in
a huge
transition
between
Avraham and
Yitzchak,
one which
describes
Avraham's
remarriage
and six (!)
additional
children [at
the ripe age
of 140[1]].
1:
Avraham
again took a
wife. Her
name was
Keturah.
2: She
bore him
Zimran,
Yokshon,
Medan,
Midian,
Yishbok, and
Shuach.
3:
Yokshon
fathered
Shevah and
Dedan. The
sons of
Dedan were
Ashurim,
Letushim and
Leumim.
4: The
sons of
Midian were
Eiphah,
Eipher,
Chanoch,
Avidah and
Eldoah. All
these were
children of
Keturah.
5:
Avraham gave
all that he
possessed to
Yitzchok.
6: To
the sons of
the
concubines
that Avraham
had, Avraham
gave gifts.
He sent them
away from
Yitzchok,
his son,
while he
[Avraham]
was still
alive. [He
sent them]
eastward to
the Land of
the East.
7: These
are the days
of the years
of Avraham
which he
lived, one
hundred
years,
seventy
years and
five years.
8:
Avraham
expired and
died in a
good old
age, old and
satisfied,
and he was
gathered to
his people.
It makes for
great trivia
questions
[ask around:
how many
children did
Avraham
have?] - and
wonderment,
challenging
us to
consider
a.
Why does
Avraham
remarry at
all?
b.
Avraham
bears
another 6
children at
around the
age of 140.
What is the
significance
of this
c.
Avraham
sends them
away - why?
But one
thing we all
know
is that
Keturah was
not a third
wife, she
was the
return of
Hagar (by a
very
different
name). This
"fact" is
known to all
save for
Rashbam, Ibn
Ezra,
Chizkuni and
indeed the
Sages of the
midrash. [Tanchuma,
Chayei Sara
8]
"Rabbi said:
Hagar is the
same as
Ketura. Why
is she
called
Ketura?
Because she
was
completely
celibate
[after
originally
being
banished by
Avraham].
But the
Sages said:
He married a
different
woman
Our
knowledge is
Rashi-centric
and to him
we shall
return. What
emerges is
two distinct
approaches
for
Keturah's
identity.
Either she
was Hagar or
she was not.
Either way,
we must
ponder the
questions we
posed above.
I. Assuming
that Hagar =
Keturah, we
supplement
our question
list:
d.
What basis
is there to
make the
leap that
identifies
Hagar with
Keturah?
(i.e.
textual
support)?
e.
If she is
Hagar, then
why the
changed
name?
f.
Why does
Avraham
bring her
back?
g.
Doesn't this
violate
Sarah's word
to send away
the
maidservant
and her son?
Is Avraham
not
proscribed
from
marrying
Hagar?
Rashi
provides us
with 2
textual
supports. On
the verse
that
describes
Avraham's
concubine
children,
the Torah
states:
ובני הפילגשם
- To the
sons of the
concubines
that Avraham
had, Avraham
gave gifts.
Rashi notes
that the
hapilagshim,
the plural
of
concubines
is spelled
deficiently
[without a
yud] to
teach:
..that there
was only one
concubine,
[for] Hagar
was
identical
with Keturah.
Wives are
[those that
are married]
with a
kesubah.
Concubines
are those
who have no
kesubah.
The absence
of the yud
implies a
singular
pilegesh[2]
- which can
only happen
if Hagar and
Keturah are
one. Much
Torah
surrounds
this Rashi -
but one
fascinating
nugget need
be said:
Rashi's
Torah text
is different
than our
Masoretic
wherein
hapilagshim
is not
deficient[3].
The 2nd
basis:
Immediately
prior to
describing
the 1st
encounter
[the camel
scene]
between
Yitzchak and
Rivkah, the
Torah
relates
Yitzchok had
just come
from the
well
[called]
Lachai Ro'i,
for he lived
in the land
of the
Negev.
But why is
it
significant
from whence
he came?
Thus, Rashi
[based on
the midrash]
elaborates:
He was
returning to
bring Hagar
back to his
father so
that he
could [re]marry
her
The well of
Lachai
Ro'i is
key, for its
only prior
reference is
in a Hagar
context; she
is forced
out [the 1st
time] and
the angel
tells her to
return to
Sarah,
whereupon
Hagar
remarks:
She called
the Name
"You are
Almighty Who
sees," ..
therefore
the well was
called: "Be'er
Lachai
Ro'i;[the
well of the
living
vision]
A remarkable
and poignant
scene: While
Avraham is
pushing his
son's
shidduch,
Yitzchak, is
looking for
his father.
Perhaps, the
a Sarah-less
life was so
painful that
both needed
comfort.
Indeed,
Rivkah is
explicitly
mentioned as
a comfort
for
Yitzchak.
Perhaps the
same is true
for Avraham
Something
much deeper
is going on
here. Rashi
clues us in
by
explaining
the name
change
[25:1]
"Ketura -
this was
Hagar. She
is called 'Ketura'
because her
actions were
pleasant
like incense
(ketoret)[4]
Rashi's
beautiful
words seem
to be self
contradictory,
for earlier
when Hagar
is kicked
out for the
second and
final time
the Torah
describes
"'She
departed and
she
wandered' -
she returned
to the idols
of her
father's
house." (Rashi,
21:14)
Zohar,
Chizkuni,
Kli Yakar
among others
offer a
classic
resolution.
Hagar became
a ba'alas
teshuva,
returning
after her
stray.
How
fitting, in
classic
Talmudic and
Maimonidean
fashion is
her name
change - for
the name
change
bespeaks a
teshuva
process of
shedding old
ways and
emerging as
a
transformed
or
transcendent
personality.
Kli Yakar's
beautiful
comment that
davka the
incense
analogy is
apt for
ketoret
turns the
foul
smelling
chelbanah
[one of its
11
ingredients]
into a
reiach
nichoach, a
beautiful
aroma -
reminiscent
of Hagar's
transformation.
Avraham dies
at a good
age; For
Ramban, that
means a
state of
having
accomplished
it all; for
Rashi it is
the sense of
closure;
Yishmael
after
experiencing
the
vicissitudes
of life has
come back;
Avraham who
must force
out
Yishmael and
Hagar
because of
their
deviant
paths is
able to
bring them
back into
the beis
Avraham,
thus closing
his life
with
serenity.
Avraham does
not violate
Sarah's
command[5],
for that
only obtains
when they
are
negatively
impacting.
One
fascinating
question:
the chickens
come home to
roost - both
yishmael and
Hagar return
-
coincidence?
Or did one
lead the
other and if
so - in
which
direction. I
have seen no
sources on
the matter.
Something to
think about
II. In our 2nd
approach, (Keturah
≠ Hagar),
we may
rightfully
wonder why
the Torah
does not
reveal
Keturah's
identity and
Why indeed
does Avraham
marry her?
A simple
midrashic
approach:
"'In the
morning -
sow your
seed, and
towards
evening do
not cease' (Kohelet
11:6) - if
you have
children
when you are
young, marry
a wife in
your old age
and bear
[more]
children.
From whom do
we learn
this? From
Avraham, who
married a
wife and had
children
when he was
younger, and
he took
[another]
wife in his
old age." (Yalkut
Shimoni 109)
As long as
he is
living, man
must be
productive -
physically
and
spiritually.
The
Piasetzner
Rebbe taught
that the
phrase ba
bayamim,
a term used
in Chumash
exclusively
for Avraham
and Sarah,
implies
squeezing
every moment
out of life
- living it
to the max.
Avraham came
with all of
his days,
not leaving
a moment
behind.
But who and
why Keturah?
The
simplest
approach is
that she was
a local - a
Canaanite
women,
raising the
obvious
question of
whither the
Abrahamitic
prohibition
of marryng a
Canaanite
woman. The
approach is
taken and
the
questions
asked. A
beautiful
midrash
however
dispels this
notion:[Yalkut
Shimoni,
Iyov - 903]
"Abraham
married
three women:
Sarah, the
daughter of
Shem; Ketura,
the daughter
of Japheth;
Hagar, the
daughter of
Ham". And in
fact he
married them
in the order
in which the
"fathers"
appear in
the Bible
(6:9) -
first the
daughter of
Shem, then
the daughter
of Ham, and
finally the
daughter of
Japheth.
In other
words
Avraham
marries
three women,
fulfilling
the blessing
of "through
you shall be
blessed all
the families
of the
world".
Rashbam [Bereishis,
28:14]
stunningly
explains the
word
v'nivrichu[6]
as grafting.
In this
light the
Divine
imperative
is that at
the end of
his life, in
his
post-Sarah
existence,
Avraham
fulfills the
last piece
of his
blessing -
through him
the world is
blessed and
populated.
After years
of
isolation,
Avraham
becomes the
father of a
multitude of
nations.
But it is
not merely
about
creating
people.
Avraham
sends away
the
children, to
the Far
East, i.e.
to the far
flung
corners of
the world.
He knows
that in the
end, they
too shall
return.
It may take
a few
thousand
years, but
the notion
that there
is a piece
of Avraham
in every
human being,
means that
hope, and
pining for a
connection
the Master
of the
Universe
springs
eternal; for
beyond the
pintele
yid [the
little spark
of Jew],
there is a
pintele
Avraham
resident in
every
neshama,
waiting to
be ignited ,
to fulfill
the words of
the prophet:
"For then
will I turn
to the
nations a
pure
language,
that they
may all call
on the name
of the LORD
- to serve
Him as one.
[tzephania,
3:9]
As Jews, let
us help
light their
fires.
Good Shabbos,
Asher
Brander